When in doubt on these things, I take a piece of play dough and try to get a copy of the hole in the fastener. Them I try to match it up at a tool type place.

The operative word here is "try".
Ha... never thought of that. Not sure if we have any around the house, but my 2-year-old nephew has lots.

Don, where did you find this fastener??
See the
latest entry in my build thread, added just now. It's a retaining "nut" which is preventing me from removing one of the output shaft bearings.